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Manley Hot Springs, AK
January 1
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A MyEpilepsyTeam Member

My parents want me to move in with them but I live alone and feel comfortable living alone but sometimes I don't think it's such a good idea

May 26
A MyEpilepsyTeam Member

My family did that to me when I was right out of high school, because the diagnosis had come. I found this frustrating at first, but then the seizures became worse and worse. My church family was the hope that I needed to keep me grounded and not give up. I spent almost 15 years not allowed to drive until I finally had my brain surgery, and this finally ended the seizures for good. I am now more than 11 years seizure-free and breaking all expectations! I completed my bachelor's degree and am working on my master's degree post-surgery! I am in the top 30percent of the class and flooring everyone. Never giving up!

January 5
MyEpilepsyTeam

How can you decide whether to move back home when your family feels you can't be alone due to epilepsy?

This is a deeply personal decision that involves balancing safety, independence, and quality of life. It's understandable that your family is concerned, but it's also important to trust yourself and advocate for what you Show Full Answer

How can you decide whether to move back home when your family feels you can't be alone due to epilepsy?

This is a deeply personal decision that involves balancing safety, independence, and quality of life. It's understandable that your family is concerned, but it's also important to trust yourself and advocate for what you need.

Consider these factors when making your decision:

* The severity and frequency of your seizures
* Whether you have warning signs (auras) before seizures occur
* Your current living situation and available support systems
* What accommodations or safety measures could help you live independently
* How moving home would affect your emotional well-being and sense of autonomy

Many people with epilepsy successfully live independently with proper planning and support. This might include safety modifications at home, medical alert systems, or regular check-ins with loved ones.

If independence is important to you, explore middle-ground options. Could you live nearby instead of moving back home? Are there community programs or financial assistance that could help with transportation or other needs?

Ultimately, you're the one navigating your life with epilepsy. While your family's concerns come from love, you know your condition best. Have an honest conversation with them about your capabilities, your safety plan, and what support you actually need versus what they fear you need.

January 1
A MyEpilepsyTeam Member

My mom was more concerned about me moving out of the house than if i was able to survive on my own. So, i went ahead and moved out. Luckily, i lived in San Francisco where there were buses and street cars nearby. I need a map of the system and figure destinations out.

May 27
A MyEpilepsyTeam Member

My Son want to move to Georgia were his family live but did not say any thing about moving with them. He said they are looking at 55+ apmts. My Dr doesn't want me to live by myself. I haven't told my Son that yet

May 27

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