Jen, how big of a "garden" do you have? My EX's parents, awesome people, had a 1 acre garden. And my relatives in Indiana have similar.

William, how are you doing? Jen's words speak volumes and show much more than you want to admit. I can hear your struggles in you words, so no need to share if you don't desire. It doesn't take a brain scientist to know you're hurting and whether or not I know the extent of what you're dealing with, GOD knows. So I talk to My Heavenly Father (pray) and ask to bless you and take care of you, and God does the rest.

We call utilizing every nook and cranny being efficient. I used to have garden for a small yard. So I cheat and walk to the produce stand nearby or the farmer's market which is a little further just as I did w/ my Mom. Both have been there all my life.
You and Jen are deeply in my prayers.
God bless my brother William sister Jen
Much love
Your brother Nathan

My Parents-in-Law was the same. They had a huge garden up in Western Maryland. It was a combination of vegetables and flowers. It was amazing!

Ach Brathair Nathan .. tha mi duilich.. I be sorry to trouble you so ..all his life since I know and be with my William .. he be on the brink of death .. and he know that I be knowing that.. and choose to share this treacherous journey with him ., William say I be strong in my faith and he be right ... yet he be stronger still Nathan ,, all other things I be bearing ., even the loss of three of our wee bairn .. yet to lose him I cannot bear .. even so I know from a child that one day I must .. as all of us must bear great losses ,, because this be how life be .. we are indeed weak .. yet Our Lord . ., He be strong ., and I will face with His grace what must be .. yet .. such a comfort it be for us both to talk with you Nathan .. William be sleeping much better this night than last .. so your prayers be working ,, William know me so well he know my thoughts .. as I be knowing his ,, we both feel same about you Nathan .. tapadh leibh cho mor ar brathair .. you be so much appreciated dear brother .. as to sharing his feelings, William be not one to speak easily of his pain and suffering ., even to me .. and I being with him so long learn to read his signals he not know he be making .. through my gift of empathy .. that you hear this in his words speaks well of your own gift of empathy ., as none I know except me ever notice .. William say plain how he feel when he love .. and he be loving you deeply Nathan .. for William .. love mean absolute trust .. he trust who he love ., and be able to let his feelings show ., bit by bit .. and you be first ever other than me to decipher his feelings so well ... he be hurt so bad early in his life William learn to hold them in ., yet I read them ., and you do too .. he open himself so slowly and so cautiously .. when he say he love you.. that mean he trust you to be knowing him and accepting him as he be ..
and once William love it be forever .. and that go for me as well .. and we thank you for loving us ar brathair .. with you William believe he can let down his guard .. because love mean trust .. gum beannaiche adh Dia thu Nathan .. your brathair and piuthar William and Jen 🕊💜💙🕊

Hallo Nathan Ar Brothair ., this be William .. Mum only have a bit over acre of land . Much of that be wooded with trees she plant all life ., and Jen and me climb as wee ones😊😀.. yet we make do .. our gardens be in every nook and cranny .. along what be left of chain length fence ., and along walking trail that be round all of it ., we do our best with what we be having ., and it be meeting our needs .. we be vegetarian so we adding a bit of fish when we we be catching them 😊😀.. we be loving all those
gardens .. they be lifesavers with times being hard.. we love you ar brathaur Nathan .. gum beannaiche adh Dia thu Ae brathair Nathan ., may God Bless you, keeping you safe.. your brathair and piuthar William and Jen💜💙🕊