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It's completely understandable to feel frustrated when family members don't seem to truly listen or understand what you're going through with epilepsy. Many people with epilepsy experience this disconnect, where loved ones either minimize their experiences or respond with superficial concern without really engaging.

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It's completely understandable to feel frustrated when family members don't seem to truly listen or understand what you're going through with epilepsy. Many people with epilepsy experience this disconnect, where loved ones either minimize their experiences or respond with superficial concern without really engaging.

The pattern of asking if you're alright while simultaneously dismissing your actual attempts to communicate is particularly challenging. This kind of response can make you feel both invalidated and exhausted from constantly having to repeat yourself. Consider being direct about how their responses make you feel. You might want to have a calm conversation with your most receptive family member first, explaining specifically what support looks like to you. Sometimes people default to asking "are you alright?" because they don't know what else to say or do. Remember that your feelings are valid, and you deserve to have your experiences acknowledged and understood by your family.

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