Re: alcohol - it is def on a case by case basis and depending which medications you are on. Well all medications say "do not drink alcohol" but come on... I have to admit I do drink, my neorologist knows and he says its nothing new. Now one thing I read in your post is you said you are not a drinker to begin with... who cares what people will think at the wedding. If you drink or not does not determine if you are a grown up. You making wise decisions is what makes you an adult

When I turned 18 my GP told me if I was going to drink I could as long as I did it in moderation, had a glass of water after every two drinks and didn't drink to get drunk.

Depends on what medication you're on? I'm on topiramate and that says don't drink alcohol but I consulted my doctor and he said having a little bit is fine. But everyone is different on how alcohol/medication effects people and congratulations

All Dr.'s recommend that we don't drink alcohol 🍺. The best I can say is know and understand your Epilepsy's Tolerance to thing like that. Maybe buy some type of wine 🍷 or champagne 🥂and see how much you are able to tolerate.

I myself on occasions may drink a little alcohol. After I've drank my limit , I find something safer to drink.

Ask your doctor he knows what meds you are on. I would never mix drugs and alcohol.