I have an amazing neurologist and i live in a town not a city.

You should read the book, "A Mind Unraveld". It is on this very topic. It will open your eyes to finding a doctor.

I now see a lovely one in East Sussex& I did Voluntary work in his clinic s he sees me with out an apt

My primary doctor referred my neurologist but because of the virus we have only had webcam appointments. I live in a city so my next appointment may be in his office depending on this virus,

I got lucky. When I was in Tennessee I had a really good doctor there. But it was because my Gastroenterologist fought for me to have a good Neurologist. In Ohio I'm fighting for myself. My Primary care doctor wanted to be the one to handle my epilepsy and I said no that I needed a Neurologist. I'm glad that I did get one because I'm getting a lot done now.