I agree, not every neurologist is a specialist in epilepsy. Epileptololgist is a person who specializes in different types of seizures disorders.Also, you need to get a person who actually does research on the different drugs. Some drugs will not be for the type of disorder you may have. It's like taking antibiotics,you have to have the right one. They all work but when you get the right one , you really feel better. My son has been there, and has experienced 30 years of every seizure medication, and every combination. We seen many doctors in the tristat area. Data driven, reearch based, are the new terms They go through the normal prescribing of drugs that they've been told is effective for your type of epilepsy.
Medication effectiveness is trial and error.
By the way, my son is 41, with lennaux-gestaut syndrome, which is every seizure rolled into one. He has had a seizure disorder for about 38 years. Find a doctor that will also guide you to ask the right questions. My son has 6 vns operations, in addition to medications(20 +), ketogenic diet(with the man who wrote the book on it)(probably in the late 80s), testing for a corpus callosotomy(would have been the worst thing), and was on clinical trials of felbamate back in mid eighties . Our experience has been vast. He has two main Staples, felbamate and Onfi. We use distant rectal gel for clusters and just got the new nasal spray Valium, which we have not used yet.
Good luck and hope this helps.

Call a hospital in your and ask if there are any neurologist excepting new patients.
If you cannot locate one there call another hospital.
You usually can get the best care from a well-practiced neurologist.
Good luck
Have a blessed day

Kevin I black out when I have mine and can’t talk don’t know if it’s similar but always been on meds no surgery My doc isn’t the best but life goes on. Just got my meds adjusted hope it works