That doesn’t mean you’re a bad person. It sounds to me like they are.

If your ex leaves you because of you having epilepsy, that’s not your fault. That’s on them. Remember the wedding vows “for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health “

I’m sorry to hear Your relationship broke up because of your epilepsy. That is definitely not Your problem and a real person to spend a lifetime with.

It’s not your fault if someone leaves you because of your medical condition.

I've found some like myself take vows seriously. Others like my ex they mean really nothing more than words. Other things were more important drugs money anything other than the vows. Sad but this is how alot of society has been going. Why over sixty percent of marriages end up epilepsy or not.