every Grand Mal I have I have an *accident* but only bladder fluids please know you don't go threw this alone

Yes I sometimes I would 'wet the bed' and feel like a child before I got diagnosed we didn't know why I was doing it so I hid it from my parents and washed my sheets and remake them myself before they noticed because I felt embarrassed and then when I got diagnosed they asked the question. And my parents said no and when we got home I told them

That has happened to me four times within a 5 week period since I became an epileptic 22 years ago. I had heard about it But it had never happened to me. I was so embarrassed and humiliated I could hardly even say the words to tell my neurologist. I had to look down and then turn my eyes away. For the longest time afterwards I slept with a towel under my sheets so if it were to happen again at least my mattress would be okay.

I've never suffered seizures in my sleep. I have wet my pants a couple of times during my a complex partial seizure. One time I was at home, and another time it happened on the weekend while I was at work. I was wearing black pants, so I was able to wash my underwear and my pants crotch area in the bathroom.

No, there is no way to stop having accidents when you experience a seizure. It may be abnormal for you to have them at your age but you cannot stop them. Unfortunately.